"It’s Beginning To Look A Lot Like Christmas"

My wife is really getting into the Christmas spirit. She, my daughter in law, and my granddaughter went shopping last weekend and had a ball. They left at nine-thirty in the morning and didn’t return until seven that night. They were tired, worn out and full of the Christmas spirit. I got tired just hearing about it all.

This morning my wife and I went out bike shopping for our grandchildren. I had suggested we let my son and daughter in law find the right bikes and then just tell us how much we owed them. When I made this suggestion my wife fixed me with a stare that would have frozen a lesser man at twenty paces. Obviously she did not consider this a good suggestion.

Did you know bikes come in a variety of sizes? For my granddaughter we needed as eighteen inch one with training wheels. For my grandson we needed a sixteen inch one with training wheels. We found all sizes except these so we are still bikeless. My wife’s enthusiasm never wavered. She just said we would have to look in other stores, in other cities. I can see trips to New York and LA looming in the distance.

When we asked my youngest son what he wanted for Christmas he quickly responded, "No clothes!" This has been his answer since he was three, and now he is thirty. He wants gadgets and gizmos, anything electronic or computerized.

My oldest son just got married this year and his head is still so far into the clouds I don’t think he is even aware it is Christmas. But when he does become aware that Christmas is in the offing, I think he will be fine with clothes because he is now more practical than he used to be.

My wife and I will probably give each other a trip to the beach following Christmas. That is what we usually do. I want to save whatever money she was going to spend on me and put it towards getting our kitchen redone this summer. That’s old practical me. My real Christmas present is just having the boys and their families home for Christmas.

I am not a big Christmas person. I like the routine days of life and not the holidays. Still this year seeing the house decorated so bright and sparkly stirs something within my soul. Plus we went to our church cantata this past Sunday afternoon and the beauty of the singing lifted me up to heights of enjoyment I hadn’t felt in ages.

Also a few days ago my wife took our granddaughter to the Hay House in Macon for a tea party and a carriage ride. Genna, my granddaughter, put on the dress she had worn as the flower girl in my son JJ’s wedding. Terry curled her hair and even bought a fake fur wrap to go around her shoulders. She really did look like a fairy princess, and her excitement was contagious.

Things seem to be brighter this year than ever before and the warmth of the Christmas message is filling my heart. Could it be that after all these years I am finally beginning to understand what the Christmas spirit is all about? Maybe so. And if so, it is about time.

I still don’t feel the need to ride around looking at Christmas lights, and I do think I will scream if they play "Feliz Nadvidad" one more time. But when I look into my grandchildren’s eyes and see the joy and excitement of Christmas there, well I think I melt a little more every day.

And with that in mind I wish you all a very Merry Christmas!

 

 

 

 

 

©2005 Jackie K. Cooper

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